What can I do to show the probate court judge that custody or visitation with me is in the “best interest of the child”?

It can help to clearly explain the things that make you a positive person in the child’s life. You can emphasize your ability to care for the child, the strength of your relationship with the child, the stability you can bring to the child’s life, and why it is best for the child to live or visit with you. If possible, you should also talk to a lawyer. To find a legal aid organization near you, see Appendix A, PG. 797, for places that may offer help.